Children often become very anxious when their mothers begin to date after a recent divorce. Be sure to reassure your children that you love them and dating another guy will not change this. Explain that the new guy will never replace their real father. Try to help your children express their feelings. Encourage them to talk to you and tell you how they feel. A divorced mum who is considering dating should avoid introducing their children to every single person they are considering. You are a role model to your children so be sure you consider this before engaging in any sexual activity that your child might see.
Make sure your intended date does not attempt to control your child. You might also consider counselling to help your family integrate into one if you do find the person who completes you. A little professional help can go a long way to making this a reality.